Saturday, January 17, 2009

Trying to get on with life

It's been a little over two weeks since Castor crossed the bridge. Our hearts are a little less heavy. Meommy knows he must have been hurting, especially at the end. She's glad he's not hurting anymore. We have been comforted much by all the kind words left on our bloggy by our furrends out there. Thank you all so much.

Meommy has been spoiling me absolutely rotten. I've gotten more hand outs than ever- meat, eggs, whatever I wants. Meommy plays with me constantly. If there's a mouse to be thrown, I gets to fetch it as long as I want. Meommy decided to take a couple videos of me and post them. The first one, meommy was messing with me a little bit. She had the flashy box and I kept waiting for it to flash, so I followed her around meezing. I am a furry meezy meezer!

video

In this one, I am doing my fuzzy mouse therapy. I've got one of my favorites (recently rescued from behind the fridge) and meommy is playing with me. I loves my mices and getting to fetch and play.

video

We'll never forget my brother. I've been with him since I was born. But our hearts are slowly healing and remembering the times when he was a happy, healthy kitten. Meommy is having a hard time getting used to only one kitty to cuddle at night. It used to be meommy would have one of us snuggled under her arm and the other behind her knees. It was first come, first serve for the best place. Now I always sleep tucked under her arm, and there's an empty place behind meommy's knees.

Meommy has often thought about getting another companion kitty for me. But it's probably too soon. For now we are all moving on, healing, and consoling each other.

70 comments:

Cheysuli and gemini said...

It is hard to get used to. Particularly because you had always had each other. I am glad you have such a loving Mom to take such good care of you. Purr for her lots because she is sad to Little One.

Kaz's Cats said...

We're sorry that you're all missing Castor, but it's so nice to read that you and your Mommy are having lots of quality time together. Our purrs go out to you all for continued healing,

{{{hugs}}}

Gypsy & Tasha

Everycat said...

Fuzzy mouse therapy, cuddles and play are all very lovely things to do to help each other with the sadness. We send you love and some more purrs to you both

Whicky Wuudler

The Meezers said...

{{HUGS}} - it's hard when there's one less fuzzy there at night for your mommy, or a playmate and brother gone for you. we is glad that it's slowly getting better - it never goes away, but we know that Castor is there watching over you all.

Daisy said...

I loved hearing your meezer voice! I'm glad to know that you are starting to heal. Remember that Castor will always live on inside your hearts.

I think getting you a companion kitty is a great idea, when you are ready.

Tyler said...

Oh Pollux, you ARE a very meezy meezer. We had so much fun watching your movies. You are lucky to get so much time with your mommy. It must be so hard without Castor. We lost our big sister Kali, but since she was older and there were so many of us still left, it's been ok for us. Mom's the only one who misses her. It's just so sad to say good bye so soon. We wish you and your mommy healed hearts, ASAP.

Love, Tyler, Cookie, Jake and Sophie

Kaze, Latte, & Chase said...

You sound so much like me!! I meeze all of the time too. I decided that fetch was only really fun if you can make the humans come closer to the toy, that way they are fetching! Keep comforting each other, I bet you love having your mom to yourself even though you miss your brother.

Kaze

Camie's Kitties said...

Pollux, we are sorry that you are missing Castor so much. We know how you are feeling too. We are glad to know that you are getting lots of mommy time tho. Purrs to you and your family.

Tavi, Cody, Camie and Miss Jade

jenianddean said...

We've been a little absent and are playing catch-up ... I'm so sad to read about Castor. Incredibly sad. Continue to give your Mom all the love you can. That's all anyone can ask for. ::purrs::
--Jasper

Boy n Beethoven said...

Lots and lots of purrs and hugs to you!

'Oven

LC and Ayla said...

We know the pain. Our 16 year old brother Skeeter went over The Bridge Dec 10th. It seems so strange withoutout him.

So we know you are missing Castor SO MUCH. Cuddle tagether and get through this time of loss...

We are purrin fer ya!

DaisyMae Maus said...

Oh my goodness! Pollux, we can't believe that Castor has gone! How horrible for you an' your fambly! Please accept our deepest condolences on the loss of your brother. That's so furry, furry sad.
Luf,
DMM an' the Feline Americans

Jan's Funny Farm said...

We're glad you are healing, but it sure feels like forever, doesn't it? It's good you have each other to snuggle with instead of being alone.

CatHerder said...

Im so sorry for your loss.....love our blog, and your cats are just beautiful!

Jan's Funny Farm said...

We're glad you're healing. It's a long, slow process, but it's so nice when we can finally remember our loved furry friends in happier times.

Black Cat said...

As you heal, the happy memories will bring comfort. Castor will always be with you and I think he would want you to have another companion when you're ready. {{{HUGS}}} xxx

Kaz's Cats said...

Just stopping by to say hello Pollux - we hope that you and your beans are doing okay and continuing to heal together.

Purrs

Gypsy & Tasha

Karen Jo said...

I am glad that you are starting to heal a bit. I know that you miss Castor so much, Pollux, because he was always with you. Lots of quality time with Mom is good for both of you.

Jan's Funny Farm said...

We stopped by to see how you are doing. We hope you are healing.

The Cat Realm said...

Hello there, we so hope you are healed a little bit. It is still not that long - and we are still hurting over the loss of Anastasia almost two, and Emil almost one year ago....
Lots of purrs for you
Karl

Kari said...

Meezers are very special folk. Although I love all of my kitties, my heart still broken over my CoCo-meezer's death. He used to lay on my chest with his nose just about touching mine, look into my face and drool as he purred so hard. I adopted him when he was 14 years old and was abandoned after his owners death. When he first came to my house, he weed all over my bed, furniture, etc. He was so angry at being left behind. But within a month or so, we became soul mates and the loves of each other's lives. You will never know love unless you are loved by a meezer. He died of multi--system organ failure at age 18 years, 3 years ago.
Hope that you resume your blog. One can never get enough of meezers.

HotMBC aka The Hotties said...

Happy Purrthday Pollux. We is sorry Castor has to cellybrate from da Bridge. *nosetaps* We brote yoo toys to have fun n distrakt yoo wif too.
Luvs n purrrrrrs,
Alla Us Hotties

Karen Jo said...

Happy Birthday, Pollux! I hope that your healing has continued and things are a bit better for you now.

Princess said...

Still thinking of all of you often. I know how bad the pain and emptiness is.
I hope all of you are doing well and know that we continue to surround you with love

princess <3

Princess said...

Still thinking of all of you and loving your videos.
We know so much what you are going through too. It has been a year and a half and mom still does cry and miss Caesar.
purrs always

The Furry Bambinos said...

Oh my, it has been a long time since we stopped by. We were saddened to read the news about Castor's passing. It is so hard to lose a furry loved one. He will always remain in your hearts.

Purrs,
Padre, Panda Bear, Meerkat, Cookie, and Caramel

Jan's Funny Farm said...

We stopped by to say hello and we hope you are healing from your loss and are doing a lot of smiling and laughing as you remember Castor's antics and his time with you.

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